Someone said to me , I avoid growing up , I only choose happy things to experience , But escape the painful things . Ability and happiness coexist .
What is it about growth , I think the plants in nature are a good illustration —— Happiness and nourishment .
They need nutrients to grow , Isn't nutrition sweet ？
They need sunshine to grow up , Isn't the sunshine warm ？
They need water to grow , Isn't moisture moistened ？
What else do they need to grow ？
Maybe the only thing you need is love . If someone doesn't love them , They will be trampled on 、 Broken 、 Felled , And that's killing their growth .
No plant can say ： I need to absorb the pain to grow .
Pain is not their nourishment ！ The storm will break their tender branches 、 Will pull up their stout rhizomes 、 Will drop their green fruits to the ground , It just doesn't make them grow better . Farmers also say , The weather is bad this year , The strong wind broke many of my crops , The hail has fallen a lot of my fruits . No farmer would say , This year's storms and hail have made my crops and orchards better ！
Someone will say , It is not said in the textbook that people's growth still needs wind and rain ？
I laugh at that ： Many people don't realize , This is actually the textbook programming our consciousness from childhood ！
If you don't say that , Who is willing to endure pain ？ Who wants to be a lamb to be slaughtered ？ If no one is willing to make squeezed food , What about people who want to eat meat ？
Look at the plants in nature , Do they really need wind and rain to grow up ？ They're just trying to grow up , no longer —— I'm afraid of the wind and rain .
Real growth , Just sunshine 、 Rain and dew 、 Nutrients 、 Love and happiness .
If you're still willing to accept textbook programming , Think that growth needs suffering , Then go to the pain , Then you can grow up in pain ！
I choose to grow up happily , And then I'm not afraid to face any storm .
Plants don't choose storms , You can't choose a storm . So in the process of growing up , I don't know when the storm will come , I don't want to choose to run to the storm and let it destroy , It's not good for me . But when the storm came, I knew I was strong enough , Be able to deal with it .
If you still let your child accept the textbook ： Pain is necessary for growth 、 It's right , Then don't be surprised that children live in pain , I will choose a miserable life in the future .
Don't you really want yourself and your children to grow up happily ？